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January 5, 2010

Last week, before the most recent eldercare emergency cropped up, I did a bunch of research into housing and care solutions for my mom and her husband (another long, stressful story). Since many of you may find yourself in similar situations someday, I thought I might offer a couple helpful ideas.

First of all, when you’re researching any kind of eldercare scenario, it’s important to know that your state’s Department of Health likely oversees these facilities. That includes tracking what are called “reportable occurrences,” which can include thefts, abuse, neglect and such. They aren’t complaints per se, but they are things such facilities must report in a timely manner and then face state investigation. In Colorado, for example, you start here to look up these reports (as well as complaints and regular inspection records for things like fire safety). In many cases, the state will say in the report if the incident is isolated, part of a pattern, or chronic.

Using information I found in these reports, I was able to drop several facilities off our research list, which made our touring day last Tuesday much shorter. The reason some places got the boot? Rampant resident theft (money, jewelry, etc) spanning several years. Or, at one place, someone died because of poor communication between shifts. A resident’s oxygen tank needed to be refilled, and it wasn’t. This person died as a result.

Granted, things can happen just about anywhere at any time, but I was looking not only at what was reported, but what the facility management did about it. So, if I saw something of concern over a period of time, but then it stopped … I figured the administrators solved the issue, which may have meant firing people or whatever.

In fact, the place we hope to place my mom had a serious “drug diversion” problem in 2008. That just means a whole bunch of pain meds went missing. Typically, staff steal them for their own use or for sale, which for me is both an issue with quality of care and personal character. After just one incident in 2009, the problem stopped. When we met with the facility people, I flat out asked about their drug diversion issues, how they had solved it, etc. They seemed a bit surprised I’d dug around that much, but these are important decisions, so I got to speak with the place’s executive director in person.

So, that’s recommendation #1 — look (in depth) at your state department of health’s records on any facility you’re considering.

And, the second recommendation? Look up the Medicare nursing home rating. The 5-star ratings, begin with overall, but also break down into staffing, quality, health inspections, etc.

The one glitch in these Medicare ratings is that only nursing homes show up since in some cases Medicare pays for such care. With assisted living facilities (or other kinds of senior living options that are new for the Baby Boomers), those costs typically come out of a person’s wallet, not the insurance company’s. That means they often do not show up in these ratings.

There seem to be many new assisted living places out there. Most, however, do not offer a continuum of care. That means, if your elder gets worse, then you’ll be moving him or her to a new location and having to do all this research again. So, if the people you’re trying to help likely face a declining future, then it may be better to find a place that offers many levels of care at the same spot.

So, there is my little eldercare soapbox. I hope it helps because we found ourselves with industry “advisers” who made us feel like we had to reinvent the wheel to figure all this out.

About the Author Roxanne Hawn

Trained as a traditional journalist and based in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado, USA, I'm a full-time freelance writer for magazines, websites, and private clients. My areas of specialty include everything in the lifestyles arena, including health and home, personal finance and other consumer interests, relationships and trends, people and business profiles ... and, of course, all things pet related.

I don't just love dogs. I need them in my life. Seriously.

  1. These are good tips. Often when people are making these decisions they are in a rush and don’t have time to find out what they should ask or where they should look, so this will be helpful.

  2. Excellent post, Roxanne. Having been there, the only thing I would add is that no matter how good the facility looks in reports, there is NOTHING that beats one close relative being the patient advocate by asking questions, monitoring meds and doing pop in visits. Just keep in mind no one there loves your elderly relative and you’re the only person who can truly be their advocate.

  3. Thanks, DK, for visiting. I’m so sorry to hear about your pop. I know all too well how stressful all that can be.

    And, yes, I’m undertaking a big switch on the blog. I’ll have to click through and look at what you did with your site. And, if I get stuck, I’ll let you know. Maybe you faced a similar glitch on your end.

  4. Good information. I used some similar sites when I did such research for my Mom. Visiting during meal times is a good idea too to see what kind of food is served and you kind of get a feeling for how friendly (or clique) residents are.

  5. First, I found you via KB’s mention on her blog the other day. Enjoy what I have seen.

    Second, I sympathize with the Eldercare issues. My father was diagnosed with Parkinsons, though the doctors now believe it is Progressive Supranuclear Palsy. Regardless, his level of care needs keeps increasing and we are struggling with the decisions to move him out of my parents home. Very touch stuff to deal with.

    Also noticed your blog post about a redesign. I am a long time WordPress user hosted on Startlogic. I just recently did a complete overhaul of my site, and I am decidedly an amateur at these things. But glad to be a sounding board as you go through it.

    Glad to find your site.

  6. First, I found you via KB’s mention on her blog the other day. Enjoy what I have seen.

    Second, I sympathize with the Eldercare issues. My father was diagnosed with Parkinsons, though the doctors now believe it is Progressive Supranuclear Palsy. Regardless, his level of care needs keeps increasing and we are struggling with the decisions to move him out of my parents home. Very touch stuff to deal with.

    Also noticed your blog post about a redesign. I am a long time WordPress user hosted on Startlogic. I just recently did a complete overhaul of my site, and I am decidedly an amateur at these things. But glad to be a sounding board as you go through it.

    Glad to find your site.

  7. First, I found you via KB’s mention on her blog the other day. Enjoy what I have seen.

    Second, I sympathize with the Eldercare issues. My father was diagnosed with Parkinsons, though the doctors now believe it is Progressive Supranuclear Palsy. Regardless, his level of care needs keeps increasing and we are struggling with the decisions to move him out of my parents home. Very touch stuff to deal with.

    Also noticed your blog post about a redesign. I am a long time WordPress user hosted on Startlogic. I just recently did a complete overhaul of my site, and I am decidedly an amateur at these things. But glad to be a sounding board as you go through it.

    Glad to find your site.

  8. First, I found you via KB’s mention on her blog the other day. Enjoy what I have seen.

    Second, I sympathize with the Eldercare issues. My father was diagnosed with Parkinsons, though the doctors now believe it is Progressive Supranuclear Palsy. Regardless, his level of care needs keeps increasing and we are struggling with the decisions to move him out of my parents home. Very touch stuff to deal with.

    Also noticed your blog post about a redesign. I am a long time WordPress user hosted on Startlogic. I just recently did a complete overhaul of my site, and I am decidedly an amateur at these things. But glad to be a sounding board as you go through it.

    Glad to find your site.

  9. These are such scary decisions, and you’re right, it pays to be organized during these situations. A helpful post – hopefully one I won’t need to reference for at least another 40 yrs or so…

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