Weekly Training Update (Feb 29)
Lilly had another training date with Pitsch last Saturday. She did well playing and doing flatwork with him nearby. She might have even been a tad less bossy than last time. Maybe it helped that they were playing with his frisbee and not her ball. Things were going so well, in fact, we decided to try a little agility on our home course. Bad idea.
Lilly went first, jumping a little, weaving twice. She did it, but was VERY slow. Then, when it was Pitsch’s turn, Lilly literally turned her back on him. I asked her to turn around and watch, and she deliberately turned her head away, then she went into the early stages of a full shutdown.
She stayed a good distance away from me. She would not come, without lots of pandering. When she did come, she would not do tricks for me at all. That’s a sure sign of stress.
She realized, however, that Betsy had food too, and suddenly, Besty was her new mommy. She shook. She smiled. She sat nicely.
She completely ignored me.
So, we went back out front, away from the agility stuff. She did rebound some. Worked a tiny bit, but then she ran to the back of my car and wanted into her crate. So, I let her crate up, and she laid there quietly as Betsy and I wrapped up our visit.
So much for my wondering about it being time to push her. Wrong! Bad mommy!
BUT, there were some highlights. Once she settled in, the hair on her neck and butt went back down, and she played in a more even temper with Pitsch. When we were working his stay/relax, she had incredible control of her speed (very slow so as not to set him off) and position. She worked the entire time off leash.
She’s perfectly happy to do flatwork (heeling to both sides, turns, flips, switches), or as Leslie McDevitt calls it in the book “box work.” She’s not wild or fast or zoomie. She just is. And, while she was working, her tail swung low and slow in a relaxed position.
When it was her turn to be on her mat, she mostly stayed put with a very relaxed body and face. I even recalled then sent her again and again to her mat, and she happily did so.
While I felt pretty sick to my stomach about pushing her and causing a shutdown, I also snapped the photo below, which shows she’s adjusting to Pitsch being here well. She did bare her teeth at him a couple times (resource guarding me). She did growl at him a few times, but nothing terrible, and he’s so good natured that it doesn’t even faze him. So, that’s a bonus.
But, I think she likes him a lot. Not many dogs can get this close to her. Granted, she’s at home, where she feels comfortable, but still. It’s nice to see her this relaxed (and happy) around a high-drive, high-energy dog.