Fearful Dog Action Plan

Once in a while, everyone gets stuck. Maybe it’s stress. Maybe fear. Maybe illness, in ourselves (or those around us). When friends face what we called “stress lock” back in my college days, I typically tell them this: “Action is always better than inaction.” In other words, do something … anything … to make progress, no matter how small.

The same is true when working with our dogs.

If rule #1 is … You cannot change how a dog behaves, until you change how she feels.

Then, rule #2 is … As soon as you realize you’re dealing with a fearful dog, DO something about it (especially if there are any kids in your life or in your future).

Yesterday’s dog adoption social media blitz for Charlie, the 9-year-old, fearful border collie is a perfect example of this axiom.

I wish, wish, wish Charlie had gotten the kind of help she needed long before a scary toddler came into her life. I’m not blaming anyone. Truly. Her family has done many good things for Charlie, but now … at age 9, with well-rooted behavior challenges and a few medical issues … Charlie needs someone to step in.

I wish it could be me. BUT, many other things consume my time and energy these days, including Tom’s recent medical scare.

It’s too soon to know if our adoption blitz will help Charlie, but in the meantime, let’s consider her lesson.

Taking action as soon as you realize a dog has fears protects them later, even if big changes come into your life.

[My friend Susan makes a terrific recommendation today for a book about dogs and babies/small kids.]

I remember wondering why on earth Debbie Jacobs (our friend from FearfulDogs.com) asked me in our blog swap what kind of plan I had in place for Lilly, if something happened to me.

Now, I think I understand her question and her concern.

So, what’s your plan? Or, what rules would you add?

Related Reading (from friends of mine):

Caring For Pets in Tough Times

Keeping a Pet When You’re in Crisis

Pet Trusts: Do it for Scooch