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Champion of My Heart Obituary

Here is the long version of Lilly’s obituary, including some of the last photos ever taken of her and a few details about her final days.


Lilly Elizabeth Hawn
May 13, 2004 – December 17, 2013

Lilly Elizabeth Hawn, 9, crossed over Tuesday, December 17, 2013, after a lengthy battle with rabies vaccine-induced meningoencephalomyelitis and the side-effects of treatment.

She was my Heart Dog – my canine soul mate. Life without her feels unimaginable.

A medical miracle from her adoption in October 2004 from the Humane Society of Boulder Valley until her death, Lilly survived countless illness, injuries, and adventures, including:

  • Parvovirus
  • Pneumonia
  • A fight with a coyote
  • Two separate rattlesnake bites to the face
  • Paintball poisoning
  • And more

For 693 days following a rare and severe adverse rabies vaccine reaction, Lilly fought with everything she had. She repeatedly beat the odds and rallied in the face of seemingly insurmountable bodily failures …

  • Relentless brain and spinal cord inflammation
  • Infections (MRSA and otherwise)
  • Liver and kidney stresses
  • Blood clots
  • Bleeding
  • And, ultimately, not one but two kinds of cancer (nasal carcinoma, oral sarcoma) that stemmed from long-term immune suppression (required to protect her brain)

Lilly was funny and smart. She learned a number of advanced dog tricks and knew some 100 words.

I cannot remember if Lilly loved to cuddle from the beginning or if she learned quickly to love it, after we adopted her at 6 months of age. Either way, we spent a lot of time snuggled up – spawning a variety of nicknames:

  • Lilly Bug
  • Cuddlebug
  • Snugglebug
  • The Bug
  • Buglet
  • Bugaloo
  • Mrs. Buggleson

In her prime, Lilly looked and moved like the perfect combination of a ballerina and a kick boxer. Completely ripped with muscles, she could leap incredible heights with seemingly zero effort.

Lilly loved to play fetch. She proved to be an accomplished hiking companion, often setting a blistering pace with me huffpuffling behind her.

LAST photo of rox and lilly 11-9-13

This is the last photo ever taken of me and Lilly together (November 9, 2013).

Thanks to an apparent stomach of steel, she frequently rode in the car up and down our steep, winding Rocky Mountain canyon road on our way to various adventures together. Some of my best memories include driving around in the summer with the windows down and the sunroof open – just a couple of girls having a great day.

Unlike so many of our friends with competitive titles galore, Lilly enjoyed but never competed at agility, herding, and rally. There would be no dog sport championships for us.

That’s why we named the blog Champion of My Heart. It remains the championship that matters most to us.

Thanks to the blog, Lilly earned two awards in 2010:

  • Dogtime Media Best Dog Blog
  • Humane Society of Boulder Valley Community Engagement Award

Every day that I knew Lilly I loved her more than the last. I will love her forever.

I gave Lilly everything I had – and many things I didn’t – financially, emotionally, and otherwise.

When she became so dangerously ill in January 2012, after the routine rabies vaccination, we fought as hard and as long as we could.

I often told people, “We’re going to lose, eventually.”

And, lose we did. Along the way, however, we won a million ways in every moment together – big and small.

The day before Lilly died, she smiled at my side, perched on a combination of two dog beds we’d rigged together for greatest possible comfort. She ate well, gave us probably 1,000 kisses, and was strong enough to greet her Daddy at the door when he got home from work.

LAST photo of lill 12-16-13

The last photo ever taken of Lilly (December 16, 2013).

Again and again, she said “Thank you” and “I love you” with her beautiful smile and inspirational strength.

The final stage of her illness came quickly and decisively – leaving us no doubt it was time to let her go. In the days since, we’ve found that swift conclusion both haunting and a blessing.

Devastating doesn’t even begin to describe the loss of my best, best friend. In recent years as human friendships failed me in countless ways, this dog – this brave, wonderful, miracle of a dog – remained at my side.

Matching me step for step. Breath for breath. Heart for heart.

Goodbye, beautiful girl. Thank you for everything. My life will never be the same.

 

Roxanne Hawn

Trained as a traditional journalist and based in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado, USA, I’m a full-time freelance writer for magazines, websites, and private clients. My areas of specialty include everything in the lifestyles arena, including health and home, personal finance and other consumer interests, relationships and trends, people and business profiles … and, of course, all things pet related.

I don’t just love dogs. I need them in my life. Seriously.

Sarah Robinson - January 9, 2014

Roxanne – while I am new to your blog, this post has left me a blubbery mess. We lost our #suckhole just 4 days before your beautiful Lilly crossed over. Today the pain is as raw as it was on Friday the 13th. There are no words. From one dog lover to another, my heart aches for you.

Be gentle on yourself my friend. xo
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Jane Boursaw - January 5, 2014

What a lovely tribute, Rox. Thank you for sharing your heart dog with us. Her love spread far and wide across the country.
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Maxwell, Faraday & Allie - January 5, 2014

So poignant – and simply beautiful. I wish that words could heal, and strip away the aching loss you feel….
Heart animals are forever. May the pain transition to sweet memories for you soon. Many healing purrs sent your way….
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LisaT - January 3, 2014

I hadn’t read this when I posted my earlier comment.

I am so sorry, you fought such a hard battle and were so devoted to her.

Ru Free Lily…

Deborah Flick - January 1, 2014

Dear, dear Roxanne
I am so sorry. I just now learned of your sweet girl’s crossing over. My heart aches for you. I know your connection with Lilly is profound and beyond all words. Lilly was a champion to the end, and so were/are you. You were both so fortunate to be in each other’s lives. Know I am thinking about you and that you and your sweet girl are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jen - December 31, 2013

Lilly will be missed, at home and abroad.
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Harry Giarratana - December 31, 2013

I am so very sorry.

Susan - December 31, 2013

I’ve always thought you are a wonderful writer — but, man, I think Lilly was writing this with you. Hugs!

Seattle DogSpot - December 31, 2013

Thank you for sharing such a beautiful tribute to Lilly.

Theresa - December 30, 2013

This is a Very Inspiring Beautiful Love Story! Shows deep respect & admiration for Lilly & she showed back to her Wonderful Owners..I certainly hope that I am half as good to my Wonderful Pets..Thank You Lilly & Roxanne for paving us this path.

slimdoggy - December 30, 2013

Our hearts go out to you. I know there are no words to express your feeling of loss, but this was a wonderful tribute to Lilly. She would smile at it. Thank you for sharing her story with us.
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Ingrid King - December 30, 2013

My heart goes out to you. What a beautiful obituary. I can’t even imagine how much you miss your sweet Lilly. I don’t think we ever get over the loss of these “soul animals,” but we do learn to live with the loss. Lilly’s legacy will live on. I wish you moments of peace, and an occasional smile as you remember your beautiful girl. The pain will lessen in time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Rachel Hopple - December 30, 2013

Sending you virtual hugs…you were such a lifeline for Lilly…and always positive and thinking of her. You gave it your all…and then some. Lilly is now pain-free, and you will see her one day. For now, I’m hoping your memories will give you much comfort. (((HUGS)))) from Ohio.

Nancy - December 29, 2013

The best tribute to a dog I’ve ever read.

I confess that I have spent these (nearly) past two weeks alternating between letting a few tears fall for Lilly and you, and laughing – against my will – whenever I think about the time you wrote about Lilly high-jumping around you – sailing sometimes higher than your head.

She did match you breath for breath and heart for heart.

And I know she will stay around you always.

You too are the champion of her heart, just as a previous reader so eloquently stated.

I’m so sorry for your grief. It pains me to hear of it, yet I am glad you share. You have so many kindred souls out here. Never forget it and post about Lilly as often and whenever you want.

Your grief is double, maybe even triple. It is expected grief and yet it is also acute grief – the mixture of both makes you work even harder.

Our thoughts are with you and Lilly.

Claudia - December 29, 2013

We should all live so well ~ until the very end. This is how I dealt with my husband’s fight with Parkinson’s Disease. We lived as well as we could until his spirit had to leave his body. God bless you in your sorrow. Someday the memories will not be so painful.

Edie - December 29, 2013

My heart is with you. It’s impossible to express the pain of what such a loss brings, but you’ve done it beautifully.

Pup Fan - December 29, 2013

A wonderful tribute to a beautiful girl and a life full of love. ((hugs))

Caroline - December 29, 2013

Roxanne, sending so much love to your family. What a beautiful tribute to an amazing, loving life together. You know, you were the champion of her heart, too. xoxo

Alexo - December 29, 2013

Hugs!

Debra n Snap - December 29, 2013

Oh, Roxanne… my heart is heavy with sadness for you. I know losing a “heart” companion is grievous. I know that time does heal a part of us to be able to smile again at quirky memories that pass through our minds and hearts. Grieving is not standard to any of us, we all grieve differently and that is good. You do what you need to, to get through this sad part of your life…. I’m thinking of a song by Rascal Flats:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5gBxKEgZqM. It says it all…. Thinking of you.

Debra and Snap

jansfunnyfarm - December 29, 2013

A beautiful tribute to Lily. <3
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Joy - December 29, 2013

OH my,,that beautiful brave girly,,,what a partnership,,,the last picture is special and because I know it is the last ,,breaks my heart

I wish you strength,,,,and I am glad she had you to love and vice versa

words really fail me

rottrover - December 29, 2013

A beautiful tribute to the purest kind of love.
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Connie - December 29, 2013

My heart goes out to you. Gentle purrs of healing as you go through this difficult transition.
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Janiss - December 29, 2013

Roxanne, I just now heard the news of Lilly’s passing. Your tribute is as beautiful as Lilly’s spirit, which will continue to live on in your heart – and the hearts that Lilly touched along the way.
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Hilary - December 29, 2013

Tears. What a wonderful tribute to a special dog. She will always be in your heart, but also, in our hearts. We will never forget her unfolding story from the very beginning. Thank you for writing about her all these years. Her tribute truly depicts how much she meant to you — and as for the rest of her followers — we miss her so.

Eileen - December 29, 2013

You and Lilly had an incredible journey together and that’s such a lovely tribute.
Your ever faithful friend will be forever in your memories and in your heart.
Sending love to you.

Saoirse - December 29, 2013

I am not surprised that her last day with you was full of smiles and kisses. So true to her story. I am different in the world because of the story you shared of your partnership with Lilly. I am immensely different with my own canine partner. Thank you for the brave and “all in” telling of Lilly and your heart bond with this magnificent being. You continue to honor her spirit in a manner that inspires me to be better. Lilly’s life and your sharing fill me with love and compassion and even boldness. Much love and light to you and Tom.

Lisa - December 29, 2013

“Devastating doesn’t even begin to describe the loss of my best, best friend. In recent years as human friendships failed me in countless ways, this dog – this brave, wonderful, miracle of a dog – remained at my side.
Matching me step for step. Breath for breath. Heart for heart.
Goodbye, beautiful girl. Thank you for everything. My life will never be the same.”

These words describe the loss so eloquently, I cry as I read them. It is almost 2 years since the loss of my dearest friend. We were together 24/7 for 15 years. Some days I am still in shock she is not next to me. I try to keep busy, I foster, I volunteer, for I really enjoy animals more than most people I know! She gave me strength, joy, laughter, fun….all bundled up in a beautiful furry creature. I quess we are lucky to experience that rare bond and love….but it makes it all that much harder to live without them. I feel your pain and your loss, and wish you moments of peace as you move through your days.

Linda Martin - December 29, 2013

What a wonderful tribute to Lilly and your relationship together. I wish you peace of mind…you did everything you could for her.
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Mary Wilson - December 29, 2013

Roxanne-Thank you for this heartfelt obituary. It isa wonderful tribute to Lilly. I wish I had known her personally. She was one lucky pup to have been loved so completely by you. You and Tom are awesome people. I pray your grief will ease soon but I know it will never go away completely. Love to all of you.

Kim - December 29, 2013

That was beautiful. Life is so terribly fleeting…but she will remain in your heart forever.

kenzohw - December 29, 2013

What a beautiful tribute. I never knew the reason behind the name of your blog. And it couldn’t have had a better name. You and Lilly have fought so brave together, never have I know or read about a couple so brave, against all odds. We keep you as champions of our hearts, too.
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    pa - January 18, 2014

    Beste Leo.
    Dit artikel over lilly moet je gesterkt hebben in jouw
    verdriet over Viva.
    Pa.

merr - December 29, 2013

A beautiful companion – then, now, always. And a beautiful tribute to a very special pup.

Theresa & Prudence - December 29, 2013

So very sorry, wishing there were words to help.
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